Hello Gorgeous

Talk about true sex appeal! I have always loved Dita Von Teese's style and now you too can have that Old Hollywood look with her limited edition collection for Wonderbra. Follow the link for details about purchase, but live by her quote. I know I do!!

"Lingerie shouldn’t be something you just put on for your lover; you should do it for you. It's not about seducing men, it's about embracing womanhood."

Foot Fetish Story Contest

If you are a member on Alt.com you might remember seeing an email about a Foot Fetish writing contest. The rules allowed only 150 words - not an easy task, but I submitted 2 entries. Below is a cope of one entry - the other one is hotter, but you'll have wait to read that one!
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A seat on the train; must be a rush hour miracle. No one ever makes eye contact but She stares directly into your soul. You shift your gaze downward to find shapely legs clad in gloriously sheer nylons with seams.
Continuing to stare, comprehension slowly dawns: the vision haunting your dreams is real and standing before you.
	Her foot slips free and with pointed toes she drags her foot upward revealing Cuban heels; your cock springs to life. A sudden stop propels her shoe toward you.
Falling to your knees, you retrieve the shoe, catching the scent of leather and HER.
She presents her perfectly pampered foot. Numb with pleasure, you replace the shoe. The trains slows, Grand Central is next. Uncomfortably you attempt to rise, she glances at your tented slacks.
	Exiting the train she hands you Her card. Mistress W In that moment, you know God exists.

Sesame Street Fosters Shoe Fetish?

Neil Patrick Harris singing about shoes with some fuzzy characters is a fun but I'll let you decide what it really means!

Max Mosley - Did He Really Win?

The much publicized privacy court case involving Max Mosley has concluded. While the court decided in favor of Mosley and awarded him 60,000 pounds in damages, one has to wonder if he really won anything. Okay, so the case decided he had a right to expect privacy but once the video hit YouTube and his sexual interests became the stuff newspapers love to use as headlines, privacy can't be made retro-active. How once can really repay someone for the damage done to their reputation, their marriage and standing in the community? Those things can't be bought back from the public.

Feminist Porn: Sex, Consent, and Getting Off

I've finally found a position on Feminism and Sexuality that I can relate to! In a constant search for interesting items for you, I found an excellent article on Feministe . I recommend you read the full article, but for those of my readers with short attention spans here is a section from the blog to wet your whistle:

The reality of what women, even feminists, find pleasurable is not always politically correct. Sexuality is not neat and clean. I have talked to many feminist women who struggle to balance what really happens behind closed doors and what they feel the bedroom politics of a “good feminist” should be. Enjoying BDSM, strap-on sex and sex toys, genderplay, rape and incest taboo, mainstream pornography, and other “deviant” sexual taboos with a consensual partner does not make a person a “bad feminist” or a hypocrite. To the contrary, feminism is what gave me permission to love sex, with myself and with others, to embrace my sexual orientation, and find out what turns me on.

All I can say is 'you go girl'!

Spanking is in the News Again

Max Mosley, Formula 1 big shot recently caught on tape doing a Nazi themed scene with 5 "working girls", has brought "what we do" front and center on the world stage. Whether or not the uniformed scenes are your cup of tea, Mosley claims it's all about the spanking. Spanking, as an activity between adults, is thoughtfully discussed in a recent article titled "The Pleasure Principle" that appeared in The Scotsman.

BDSM Debate: Tax Dollars Hard at Work in Massachusetts

If you thought Politics only deals with boring bills, then you haven't been keeping up with Massachusetts House Bill 1722, the Transgender Rights Bill. While the bill itself may not make good reading, the debate it has sparked spans the gamut of emotions- from conservative thoughtfulness, to the wildly absurd.

I am in no way voicing My opinion on this bill and the very real issues it's attempting to address. I am concerned about what it might mean with respect to standards of public behavior. My personal standard of behavior has always been in keeping with the mantra: Safe, Sane and Consensual. In My professional life I am often asked about public outings with clients. I don't feel anyone has the right to force their fetish on the general public.

So while some Dommes may spank a sub in public, or allow foot worship in a public park, I won't risk having a child or other adult view these scenes - they obviously didn't consent to such a show. I, of course, don't mind pushing the envelope under the right circumstances and find that public teasing can often be quite erotic, but I pick My spots very carefully. Teasing behaviors are best left to very discrete actions in public which only make private encounters more enjoyable.

WOW - Those are Some Serious Shoes!

Ever wonder what Million dollar shoes look like? No need to wonder any longer. Top shoe designer Stuart Weitzman, who just happens to be one of My favorites, designed this stunning diamond adorned pair that will set you back a cool Million. I bet they looked great on the red carpet!!

Student Pulication Looks at Fetishes

Student publications must be getting more liberal - My college publication wasn't in color, and didn't have a "Sex Edition". The University of Western Ontario's student newspaper's (The Gazette) February 15th edition was dedicated entirely to sex. Not only is the cover photo more provocative than any published at My alma mater, but the article about sexual fetishes, spans a topic that might only be mentioned in a advanced psychology course.

Happy Valentine's Day

It just goes to show that even professors can be stupid, but this one was just plain lucky; he's alive to celebrate another Valentine's day.

Spending Valentines day in NY with the person you have been married to for "more than 30 years" might sound like the picture of romance, My guess, this man's wife has mixed feelings about the circumstances that brought her to NY this year. Read and decide for yourself.

Bondage Accident - Deeply Disturbing

If you have read anything I have written, you know that I am very particular about which clients I will see and what kinds of sessions I will do. The decision is squarely mine and not open to discussion.

My RULE NUMBER ONE is that play must be Safe, Sane and Consensual. I have turned down many clients who I feel take unacceptable risks, or that simply don't/won't fully exercise their share of the responsibility to ensure compliance to that rule.

However, like any rule that is simply stated, individuals are left to apply their own personal judgment as to the meaning of "safe, sane and consensual" and therefor apply their own level of "acceptable risk".

I hate to see headlines like this in My local paper, especially when it involves supposed "professionals". But even more, I'd hate to see this incident become the weapon that some lawmaker wields to make domination (currently a legal activity) an illegal form of entertainment - using public safety as a cover-up for morality.

So play, but play safe, and above all, no matter who you play with, ask questions that will not only result in a satisfying play session, but a safe one, so you will live to play another day.

Thankfully, no one died in this incident, but that was only pure luck in timing.

Fetish Marathon and other Kinky Events

With so much happening in the world of kink, it's hard to know where to start!

Perhaps it's best to start were we've been and then we can move on to were we're going. It's hard to beleive that Red Hot Ice happened nearly a week ago. As always, anything hosted by the creative minds at Arena Studios, it was a top shelf event with every detail expertly tended to. A great time was had by all!

While the vanilla world awaits the long Memorial day weekend, the kinky crowd anxiously awaits the Fetish Marathon the following weekend. This year however, there is a huge twist in the schedule. The focal point of the weekend, and for many the highlight of the entire NY Scene, the highly acclaimed Black and Blue Ball, will be held in the fall and not during the Fetish Marathon. I'm sure there will still be enough kink to put even the most hard core player into overdrive with events Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights begining June1.

Are You Being Served?

I recently acquired a sissy maid and am really looking forward to her start date. I can't wait to see her don the uniform!

While I am a diva, I am not a Domestic Goddess. Sure, I am a hell of a cook, I can sew and can plan the perfect dinner party, but My cleaning will never get me into Good Housekeeping. Perhaps to be more precise, the house isn't dirty, just very cluttered and disorganized.

Being a sissy maid is serious business. To bring someone into my home, it couldn't be about being "fantasy" maid. To serve Me personally it takes a serious dedication. Do you think you have what it takes? Take the test and find out!

http://www.lesmalheursdesophie.com/maid-test.html

PS - Who caught the title reference?