Hello Gorgeous

Talk about true sex appeal! I have always loved Dita Von Teese's style and now you too can have that Old Hollywood look with her limited edition collection for Wonderbra. Follow the link for details about purchase, but live by her quote. I know I do!!

"Lingerie shouldn’t be something you just put on for your lover; you should do it for you. It's not about seducing men, it's about embracing womanhood."

Featured Domme

Last Sunday (8/10) I was featured on Sanctuary of the Goddess Yahoo group. The write up was well done and worthy to appear next to My pictures. Even after My picture is no longer on the front page, you'll be able to access the lovely write up!

Marriage - the Ulimate Collaring

Weddings today are more than a celebration of love. They are major events, sometimes with exotic or non-traditional destinations and are often talked about long after the bouquet is thrown. Couples use this event to send the world a message about who they are and how they see themselves. If you're a celebrity, people expect a bizarre wedding and are even disappointed if it approaches societies idea of "traditional".

With so many couples literally tie knots celebrating their love of bondage, is it no wonder that one such couple will celebrate their wedding with a BDSM theme? Tomorrow, Sunday August 16, at the Tampa Fetish Con will be the setting for one special couple as they tie the proverbial knot - talk about the ultimate collaring!

Read more in the Tampa Bay blog.

Foot Fetish Story Contest

If you are a member on Alt.com you might remember seeing an email about a Foot Fetish writing contest. The rules allowed only 150 words - not an easy task, but I submitted 2 entries. Below is a cope of one entry - the other one is hotter, but you'll have wait to read that one!
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A seat on the train; must be a rush hour miracle. No one ever makes eye contact but She stares directly into your soul. You shift your gaze downward to find shapely legs clad in gloriously sheer nylons with seams.
Continuing to stare, comprehension slowly dawns: the vision haunting your dreams is real and standing before you.
	Her foot slips free and with pointed toes she drags her foot upward revealing Cuban heels; your cock springs to life. A sudden stop propels her shoe toward you.
Falling to your knees, you retrieve the shoe, catching the scent of leather and HER.
She presents her perfectly pampered foot. Numb with pleasure, you replace the shoe. The trains slows, Grand Central is next. Uncomfortably you attempt to rise, she glances at your tented slacks.
	Exiting the train she hands you Her card. Mistress W In that moment, you know God exists.

Sesame Street Fosters Shoe Fetish?

Neil Patrick Harris singing about shoes with some fuzzy characters is a fun but I'll let you decide what it really means!

Max Mosley - Did He Really Win?

The much publicized privacy court case involving Max Mosley has concluded. While the court decided in favor of Mosley and awarded him 60,000 pounds in damages, one has to wonder if he really won anything. Okay, so the case decided he had a right to expect privacy but once the video hit YouTube and his sexual interests became the stuff newspapers love to use as headlines, privacy can't be made retro-active. How once can really repay someone for the damage done to their reputation, their marriage and standing in the community? Those things can't be bought back from the public.

Feminist Porn: Sex, Consent, and Getting Off

I've finally found a position on Feminism and Sexuality that I can relate to! In a constant search for interesting items for you, I found an excellent article on Feministe . I recommend you read the full article, but for those of my readers with short attention spans here is a section from the blog to wet your whistle:

The reality of what women, even feminists, find pleasurable is not always politically correct. Sexuality is not neat and clean. I have talked to many feminist women who struggle to balance what really happens behind closed doors and what they feel the bedroom politics of a “good feminist” should be. Enjoying BDSM, strap-on sex and sex toys, genderplay, rape and incest taboo, mainstream pornography, and other “deviant” sexual taboos with a consensual partner does not make a person a “bad feminist” or a hypocrite. To the contrary, feminism is what gave me permission to love sex, with myself and with others, to embrace my sexual orientation, and find out what turns me on.

All I can say is 'you go girl'!

Spanking is in the News Again

Max Mosley, Formula 1 big shot recently caught on tape doing a Nazi themed scene with 5 "working girls", has brought "what we do" front and center on the world stage. Whether or not the uniformed scenes are your cup of tea, Mosley claims it's all about the spanking. Spanking, as an activity between adults, is thoughtfully discussed in a recent article titled "The Pleasure Principle" that appeared in The Scotsman.

Sanctuary of The Goddess

My absence from this blog in no way means I have been absent from the Scene. I thought I would share something that recently posted in the Yahoo group, Sanctuary of the Goddess.

Hear Ye, Hear Ye, Hear Ye!


Let the clarion call of the trumpets sound throughout the land as
Superior, Dominant Women throughout the world and Their subs/slaves
and property prepare to officially "Welcome" 'Mistress Wylona'.



As "Mistress Wylona" arrives at the doors of "Sanctuary of The
Goddess" may the Superior, Dominant Women throughout the world applaud
"Mistress Wylona" as She passes through the doors and enters the
halls of "Sanctuary of The Goddess".



As the "Red Carpet" is rolled out to welcome the exalted presence of
"Mistress Wylona" and She takes Her inaugural, ritualistic and
symbolic walk through the grand doors of "Sanctuary of The Goddess",
let all submissives and slaves kneel with their heads bowed as they
meditate with prayer and gratitude on the day when those doors open
to receive Her presence.



The submissives and slaves of this group are reminded, commanded and
directed when entering the doors and passing through the halls
of "Sanctuary of The Goddess" that they do so by being ordained to
remember and to continually exercise "The 3 Protocols" of this
sanctuary: "Humility, Reverence, and Respect."



Let us praise Women everywhere as the Superior Beings They are!!



"Praise The Goddess Within"

Nothing Better to Do or Election Fodder?

Another one bites the dust! Read about the latest bust of Domes in NYC - what's this world coming to? Retirement is looking more more like a good option.

Fun Clip

Just a reminder how much a little warm weather can improve your outlook on life! This short video clip brings "al fresco" dining to a whole other level.

BDSM interests Sparks Entrepreneurial Endeavor

When deciding what kind of business to open, would-be entrepreneurs are often told, 'find something you love to do'. That's exactly what Joel Tucker did. 411Mania recently published an interesting interview with Joel.

Click the picture to go to his site; read the interview to learn about the man behind the vision.

Finally Good News On Spanking

These days "news" is more about sensationalism and less about the responsible reporting of facts. Bottom line - headlines sell. Case in point - new studies are published everyday and most will never be read, let alone be "ink worthy". But when Professor Murray Strauss published his latest study it made headlines around the world. Why?

The study concluded "children who are spanked are more likely as adults to coerce partners to have sex, to have unprotected sex and to have masochistic sex". US News and World Report's account of this story ran with the headline "Spanking Raises Chances of Risky, Deviant Sexual Behavior" Hum, Deviant Sexual Behavior bet that boosted readership.

The good news - many articles are being published that refute or at least question the studies finding. The most credible source to issue comments on the study is the
American College of Pediatricians. The Concord Monitor also published a good opinion letter on the subject and AgoraVox, a European on-line publication, posted this succinct commentary .

I encourage you to follow the links I've provided and to send Me your comments on this subject. You know how I enjoy views on spanking!!

More than just Mars and Venus

In case you were still wondering about the differences between men and women, beyond physical attributes, and planetary alignment, watch this U Tube clip. Humor is always funniest when based on universal truths and this clip hits the mark.

Spring Fashions - Leather Lovers Celebrate

Not exactly the king and queen of the prom, but these title holders looked the part sporting hot leather attire.

Casting Stones

This will be an interesting week in the news - New York's Governor is in hot water. So far, there are a lot of sound bites with very few details, but the bigger the man the more people will flock to see him fall.

I think that all men are human and thus not perfect. What a shame that all the good he's done will be forgotten and he'll be remembered for being a man. What bothers me is that this follows a tsunami of inquires from the National Enquirer about the NY BDSM scene and the March 6 issue of Time Out New York's "Secret Lives of New Yorkers: A go-go dancing lawyer, an orgy-loving dad and a pot smoking doctor. What's wrong with you people?" When did Time Out become so judgmental?

Which brings to mind John 8:7: "So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her."

San Francisco's Fetish Ball

March 6th marks the start of San Francisco's 7th annual Fetish Ball. I'm stuck on the East Coast, but if you're in the area, it sounds like a great time!!

Not Getting Your Fair Share?

If you're an American, and the subject is sex, then you probably aren't getting much at all. According to a recently survey, American's are the 2nd most undersexed country in the world (be thankful you don't live in Japan!). But no matter where you live and how much you get, 56% are unsatisfied with the quality of what they do get. Hopefully you are one of 44% that are "fully satisfied with their sex lives." Even worse, only 60% said sex was important. Sounds like sour grapes to Me!

P.S. - I never get included in these surveys - they don't want to skew the data!

BDSM Debate: Tax Dollars Hard at Work in Massachusetts

If you thought Politics only deals with boring bills, then you haven't been keeping up with Massachusetts House Bill 1722, the Transgender Rights Bill. While the bill itself may not make good reading, the debate it has sparked spans the gamut of emotions- from conservative thoughtfulness, to the wildly absurd.

I am in no way voicing My opinion on this bill and the very real issues it's attempting to address. I am concerned about what it might mean with respect to standards of public behavior. My personal standard of behavior has always been in keeping with the mantra: Safe, Sane and Consensual. In My professional life I am often asked about public outings with clients. I don't feel anyone has the right to force their fetish on the general public.

So while some Dommes may spank a sub in public, or allow foot worship in a public park, I won't risk having a child or other adult view these scenes - they obviously didn't consent to such a show. I, of course, don't mind pushing the envelope under the right circumstances and find that public teasing can often be quite erotic, but I pick My spots very carefully. Teasing behaviors are best left to very discrete actions in public which only make private encounters more enjoyable.

WOW - Those are Some Serious Shoes!

Ever wonder what Million dollar shoes look like? No need to wonder any longer. Top shoe designer Stuart Weitzman, who just happens to be one of My favorites, designed this stunning diamond adorned pair that will set you back a cool Million. I bet they looked great on the red carpet!!