Mistress Wylona's OTK Playhouse

Hello Gorgeous

2008-08-18T18:33:00.004-04:00

Talk about true sex appeal! I have always loved Dita Von Teese's style and now you too can have that Old Hollywood look with her limited edition collection for Wonderbra. Follow the link for details about purchase, but live by her quote. I know I do!!

"Lingerie shouldn’t be something you just put on for your lover; you should do it for you. It's not about seducing men, it's about embracing womanhood."

Featured Domme

2008-08-16T13:20:00.003-04:00

Last Sunday (8/10) I was featured on Sanctuary of the Goddess Yahoo group. The write up was well done and worthy to appear next to My pictures. Even after My picture is no longer on the front page, you'll be able to access the lovely write up!

Marriage - the Ulimate Collaring

2008-08-16T12:39:00.003-04:00

Weddings today are more than a celebration of love. They are major events, sometimes with exotic or non-traditional destinations and are often talked about long after the bouquet is thrown. Couples use this event to send the world a message about who they are and how they see themselves. If you're a celebrity, people expect a bizarre wedding and are even disappointed if it approaches societies idea of "traditional".

With so many couples literally tie knots celebrating their love of bondage, is it no wonder that one such couple will celebrate their wedding with a BDSM theme? Tomorrow, Sunday August 16, at the Tampa Fetish Con will be the setting for one special couple as they tie the proverbial knot - talk about the ultimate collaring!

Read more in the Tampa Bay blog.

Foot Fetish Story Contest

2008-08-05T12:00:00.005-04:00

If you are a member on Alt.com you might remember seeing an email about a Foot Fetish writing contest. The rules allowed only 150 words - not an easy task, but I submitted 2 entries. Below is a cope of one entry - the other one is hotter, but you'll have wait to read that one!
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A seat on the train; must be a rush hour miracle. No one ever makes eye contact but She stares directly into your soul. You shift your gaze downward to find shapely legs clad in gloriously sheer nylons with seams.
Continuing to stare, comprehension slowly dawns: the vision haunting your dreams is real and standing before you.
	Her foot slips free and with pointed toes she drags her foot upward revealing Cuban heels; your cock springs to life. A sudden stop propels her shoe toward you.
Falling to your knees, you retrieve the shoe, catching the scent of leather and HER.
She presents her perfectly pampered foot. Numb with pleasure, you replace the shoe. The trains slows, Grand Central is next. Uncomfortably you attempt to rise, she glances at your tented slacks.
	Exiting the train she hands you Her card. Mistress W In that moment, you know God exists.

Sesame Street Fosters Shoe Fetish?

2008-07-28T15:45:00.002-04:00

Neil Patrick Harris singing about shoes with some fuzzy characters is a fun but I'll let you decide what it really means!

Max Mosley - Did He Really Win?

2008-07-27T06:34:00.000-04:00

The much publicized privacy court case involving Max Mosley has concluded. While the court decided in favor of Mosley and awarded him 60,000 pounds in damages, one has to wonder if he really won anything. Okay, so the case decided he had a right to expect privacy but once the video hit YouTube and his sexual interests became the stuff newspapers love to use as headlines, privacy can't be made retro-active. How once can really repay someone for the damage done to their reputation, their marriage and standing in the community? Those things can't be bought back from the public.

Feminist Porn: Sex, Consent, and Getting Off

2008-07-26T22:09:00.003-04:00

I've finally found a position on Feminism and Sexuality that I can relate to! In a constant search for interesting items for you, I found an excellent article on Feministe . I recommend you read the full article, but for those of my readers with short attention spans here is a section from the blog to wet your whistle:

The reality of what women, even feminists, find pleasurable is not always politically correct. Sexuality is not neat and clean. I have talked to many feminist women who struggle to balance what really happens behind closed doors and what they feel the bedroom politics of a “good feminist” should be. Enjoying BDSM, strap-on sex and sex toys, genderplay, rape and incest taboo, mainstream pornography, and other “deviant” sexual taboos with a consensual partner does not make a person a “bad feminist” or a hypocrite. To the contrary, feminism is what gave me permission to love sex, with myself and with others, to embrace my sexual orientation, and find out what turns me on.

All I can say is 'you go girl'!

Spanking is in the News Again

2008-07-24T21:45:00.000-04:00

Max Mosley, Formula 1 big shot recently caught on tape doing a Nazi themed scene with 5 "working girls", has brought "what we do" front and center on the world stage. Whether or not the uniformed scenes are your cup of tea, Mosley claims it's all about the spanking. Spanking, as an activity between adults, is thoughtfully discussed in a recent article titled "The Pleasure Principle" that appeared in The Scotsman.

Sanctuary of The Goddess

2008-07-17T12:03:00.003-04:00

My absence from this blog in no way means I have been absent from the Scene. I thought I would share something that recently posted in the Yahoo group, Sanctuary of the Goddess.

Hear Ye, Hear Ye, Hear Ye!

Let the clarion call of the trumpets sound throughout the land as
Superior, Dominant Women throughout the world and Their subs/slaves
and property prepare to officially "Welcome" 'Mistress Wylona'.

As "Mistress Wylona" arrives at the doors of "Sanctuary of The
Goddess" may the Superior, Dominant Women throughout the world applaud
"Mistress Wylona" as She passes through the doors and enters the
halls of "Sanctuary of The Goddess".

As the "Red Carpet" is rolled out to welcome the exalted presence of
"Mistress Wylona" and She takes Her inaugural, ritualistic and
symbolic walk through the grand doors of "Sanctuary of The Goddess",
let all submissives and slaves kneel with their heads bowed as they
meditate with prayer and gratitude on the day when those doors open
to receive Her presence.

The submissives and slaves of this group are reminded, commanded and
directed when entering the doors and passing through the halls
of "Sanctuary of The Goddess" that they do so by being ordained to
remember and to continually exercise "The 3 Protocols" of this
sanctuary: "Humility, Reverence, and Respect."

Let us praise Women everywhere as the Superior Beings They are!!

"Praise The Goddess Within"

Nothing Better to Do or Election Fodder?

2008-04-25T14:52:00.005-04:00

Another one bites the dust! Read about the latest bust of Domes in NYC - what's this world coming to? Retirement is looking more more like a good option.

Fun Clip

2008-04-24T14:07:00.002-04:00

Just a reminder how much a little warm weather can improve your outlook on life! This short video clip brings "al fresco" dining to a whole other level.

BDSM interests Sparks Entrepreneurial Endeavor

2008-03-16T18:00:00.005-04:00

When deciding what kind of business to open, would-be entrepreneurs are often told, 'find something you love to do'. That's exactly what Joel Tucker did. 411Mania recently published an interesting interview with Joel.

Click the picture to go to his site; read the interview to learn about the man behind the vision.

Finally Good News On Spanking

2008-03-15T20:30:00.000-04:00

These days "news" is more about sensationalism and less about the responsible reporting of facts. Bottom line - headlines sell. Case in point - new studies are published everyday and most will never be read, let alone be "ink worthy". But when Professor Murray Strauss published his latest study it made headlines around the world. Why?

The study concluded "children who are spanked are more likely as adults to coerce partners to have sex, to have unprotected sex and to have masochistic sex". US News and World Report's account of this story ran with the headline "Spanking Raises Chances of Risky, Deviant Sexual Behavior" Hum, Deviant Sexual Behavior bet that boosted readership.

The good news - many articles are being published that refute or at least question the studies finding. The most credible source to issue comments on the study is the
American College of Pediatricians. The Concord Monitor also published a good opinion letter on the subject and AgoraVox, a European on-line publication, posted this succinct commentary .

I encourage you to follow the links I've provided and to send Me your comments on this subject. You know how I enjoy views on spanking!!

More than just Mars and Venus

2008-03-12T13:03:00.003-04:00

In case you were still wondering about the differences between men and women, beyond physical attributes, and planetary alignment, watch this U Tube clip. Humor is always funniest when based on universal truths and this clip hits the mark.

Spring Fashions - Leather Lovers Celebrate

2008-03-10T20:07:00.004-04:00

Not exactly the king and queen of the prom, but these title holders looked the part sporting hot leather attire.

Casting Stones

2008-03-10T17:12:00.002-04:00

This will be an interesting week in the news - New York's Governor is in hot water. So far, there are a lot of sound bites with very few details, but the bigger the man the more people will flock to see him fall.

I think that all men are human and thus not perfect. What a shame that all the good he's done will be forgotten and he'll be remembered for being a man. What bothers me is that this follows a tsunami of inquires from the National Enquirer about the NY BDSM scene and the March 6 issue of Time Out New York's "Secret Lives of New Yorkers: A go-go dancing lawyer, an orgy-loving dad and a pot smoking doctor. What's wrong with you people?" When did Time Out become so judgmental?

Which brings to mind John 8:7: "So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her."

San Francisco's Fetish Ball

2008-03-03T16:32:00.004-05:00

March 6th marks the start of San Francisco's 7th annual Fetish Ball. I'm stuck on the East Coast, but if you're in the area, it sounds like a great time!!

Not Getting Your Fair Share?

2008-03-03T13:43:00.007-05:00

If you're an American, and the subject is sex, then you probably aren't getting much at all. According to a recently survey, American's are the 2nd most undersexed country in the world (be thankful you don't live in Japan!). But no matter where you live and how much you get, 56% are unsatisfied with the quality of what they do get. Hopefully you are one of 44% that are "fully satisfied with their sex lives." Even worse, only 60% said sex was important. Sounds like sour grapes to Me!

P.S. - I never get included in these surveys - they don't want to skew the data!

BDSM Debate: Tax Dollars Hard at Work in Massachusetts

2008-03-02T18:04:00.004-05:00

If you thought Politics only deals with boring bills, then you haven't been keeping up with Massachusetts House Bill 1722, the Transgender Rights Bill. While the bill itself may not make good reading, the debate it has sparked spans the gamut of emotions- from conservative thoughtfulness, to the wildly absurd.

I am in no way voicing My opinion on this bill and the very real issues it's attempting to address. I am concerned about what it might mean with respect to standards of public behavior. My personal standard of behavior has always been in keeping with the mantra: Safe, Sane and Consensual. In My professional life I am often asked about public outings with clients. I don't feel anyone has the right to force their fetish on the general public.

So while some Dommes may spank a sub in public, or allow foot worship in a public park, I won't risk having a child or other adult view these scenes - they obviously didn't consent to such a show. I, of course, don't mind pushing the envelope under the right circumstances and find that public teasing can often be quite erotic, but I pick My spots very carefully. Teasing behaviors are best left to very discrete actions in public which only make private encounters more enjoyable.

WOW - Those are Some Serious Shoes!

2008-02-25T18:30:00.003-05:00

Ever wonder what Million dollar shoes look like? No need to wonder any longer. Top shoe designer Stuart Weitzman, who just happens to be one of My favorites, designed this stunning diamond adorned pair that will set you back a cool Million. I bet they looked great on the red carpet!!

Student Pulication Looks at Fetishes

2008-02-16T20:17:00.000-05:00

Student publications must be getting more liberal - My college publication wasn't in color, and didn't have a "Sex Edition". The University of Western Ontario's student newspaper's (The Gazette) February 15th edition was dedicated entirely to sex. Not only is the cover photo more provocative than any published at My alma mater, but the article about sexual fetishes, spans a topic that might only be mentioned in a advanced psychology course.

Happy Valentine's Day

2008-02-13T23:55:00.000-05:00

It just goes to show that even professors can be stupid, but this one was just plain lucky; he's alive to celebrate another Valentine's day.

Spending Valentines day in NY with the person you have been married to for "more than 30 years" might sound like the picture of romance, My guess, this man's wife has mixed feelings about the circumstances that brought her to NY this year. Read and decide for yourself.

Bondage Accident - Deeply Disturbing

2008-02-13T13:11:00.005-05:00

If you have read anything I have written, you know that I am very particular about which clients I will see and what kinds of sessions I will do. The decision is squarely mine and not open to discussion.

My RULE NUMBER ONE is that play must be Safe, Sane and Consensual. I have turned down many clients who I feel take unacceptable risks, or that simply don't/won't fully exercise their share of the responsibility to ensure compliance to that rule.

However, like any rule that is simply stated, individuals are left to apply their own personal judgment as to the meaning of "safe, sane and consensual" and therefor apply their own level of "acceptable risk".

I hate to see headlines like this in My local paper, especially when it involves supposed "professionals". But even more, I'd hate to see this incident become the weapon that some lawmaker wields to make domination (currently a legal activity) an illegal form of entertainment - using public safety as a cover-up for morality.

So play, but play safe, and above all, no matter who you play with, ask questions that will not only result in a satisfying play session, but a safe one, so you will live to play another day.

Thankfully, no one died in this incident, but that was only pure luck in timing.

Instant Gratification

2007-11-04T19:00:00.000-05:00

We live in a society where everyone wants instant gratification. Perhaps you use instant oatmeal, instant coffee, instant mashed potatoes, minute rice -- you get the idea. Some of these are close enough to real deal that you feel you're missing a thing, and the convenience is well worth what you give up. But there are some things in life where nothing but the real thing will do - even if it's more work! Read this article and see what one Iowa man feels is worth the convenience.

Back in the Saddle Again....

2007-09-15T12:12:00.000-04:00

My summer respite is over and I'm heading back into the fetish season fully refreshed, ready for lots of kinky fun! I love mild weather but really hate the sticky humidity and stagnant air that comes with summer in Manhattan. But as you might imagine, I missed My kink. So while I was away from live sessions, I ventured into a much requested area - phone domination. That's right, you can find Me at Keen several evenings a week. Look for much more to come as I build that site: including, special never before seen picture sets for purchase, pre-recorded kinky stories and videos.

Spanking Goes Prime Time

2007-08-07T10:58:00.000-04:00

I'm not into reality shows, but I wish I'd seen the one episode mentioned in this article on London's The Sun website. Apparently, on the show Housemates, one of the participants told another member of show he enjoys being spanked. Based on the picture, I'm assuming he was spanked for all to see! Now it seems Jonty's career is on the upswing - a porn company would like him to star in a spanking film.

Eating Your Way to an Orgasm?

2007-08-04T11:03:00.000-04:00

A diet that will help woman finally achieve that all elusive orgasm, or for those of us that don't seem to have that issue, the diet will provide us with even bigger/better ones - at least that is what the Orgasmic Diet book claims.

I've never given much thought about what life would be like if sex didn't result in an orgasm, so I was shocked by one of bullets at the end of the article.

Only about 30% of sexually active women orgasm during intercourse, according to the Betty Byrne Henderson Women's Health Research Center in Australia

I can't imagine having the "Big O" only once during any given sexual encounter but apparently 70% women aren't having them at all! I not only expect multiple orgasms, when things really click, I expect My partner to be drowning in wetness!

"Adult-Only" Circus

2007-07-13T09:52:00.000-04:00

I'm thrilled to be back in NY. I enjoyed traveling, but New York is My home and there's no place like home! Summer in Manhattan means there are more things to do and see than time will allow. So, I wasted no time in getting out on the town. I arrived home on July 5th and had plans for the 6th to see La Vie. I'm glad I didn't wait, after yesterday's review in the Times tickets may be harder to get.

Tucked behind the mostly forgotten South Street Seaport Mall, on pier 17, Spiegelworld has created is a delightful night spot to enjoy some "Adult Theater". The outdoor setting is part of the appeal. Arrive early and enjoy drinks while swinging from woven hammock style chairs tucked behind the DJ tent, giving you an unobstructed view of the East River, or reserve one of the cozy semi-private "harem-tent" style seating areas which also sport a great view of the water. If you're less adventurous, or can't get one of those coveted seats, there are plenty of picnic tables and benches all around the DJ tent. Either way, the party atmosphere outside the main tent helps set the mood for the in-your-face acrobatics that makes up the show.

While the I enjoyed the setting, My trek downtown wasn't for the atmosphere, but to see LaVie and the show alone was worth trip. The use of "Adult" to describe the content is used liberally - more to mean they don't allow anyone under 18 than to describe the content. The content isn't "prime time" material and qualifies as "mature" due to it's suggestive nature rather than any real overt sexual content despite the brief nudity in one scene. So while NOT "adult" by My standards, it was a sexy and thoroughly enjoyable show - well worth the effort. Don't wait if you want to see it, the show closes 8/31.

Capital Idea

2007-06-26T22:17:00.000-04:00

With the first leg of My Southern Tour behind Me, I dare say that the DC metro area knows how to welcome a visiting Domme! I had a blast, and am already planning My return trip.

Besides some very interesting sessions, I had the opportunity to see RFK Stadium. Being the big baseball fan that I am, anytime I travel, I love to see the home team's stadium. RFK's no Yankee Stadium, but they must have known I was in attendance, as they gave everyone a free hat with a W on it. Someone said it was for the Washington Nationals, but I'm certain it was for Wylona!

TES Leather Weekend Events

2007-06-14T16:07:00.000-04:00

This just came in from TES -

Get psyched for one of the greatest leather weekends of the year!
Show your leather pride and come out to these great events!

SATURDAY June 16th

6PM-10PM
"24th ANNUAL LEATHER PRIDE NIGHT"
@ Splash 50 W17 St, between 5 & 6 Ave
TES is one of the sponsors of this event. This year's beneficiaries include:
Heritage of Pride (HoP), National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), Ali
Forney Center, Gods Love We Deliver, and Leather Archives & Museum. For more
info visit: www.leatherpridenight.org

10PM 3AM
TES' ANNUAL LPN AFTER PARTY
hosted by OO7 @Paddles: 250 W 26th bet 7th & 8th
The biggest night of the fetish year doesn't end with the last item sold or
the last raffle ticket. Come join all your brothers and sisters in the
leather and fetish communities at the club Paddles for a night of
celebration, fun, and the kind of play that makes us all proud to be who we
are. Whether you're GMSMA, LSM, TES, or not yet part of any organization,
this is your party and your night. LPN Ticketholders (showing their hand
stamp get in for just $20!
$25 for members, $35 for nonmembers.

SUNDAY June 17th
2PM-8PM
"GMSMA's FOLSOM STREET EAST XI"
W28 St, between 10 & 11 Ave
Come and visit the TES Table at this amazing
open-air leather block party & marketplace.
If you've never been to a FSE you need to get
your butt down to this wonderful celebration
of the NY leather scene! For more info visit www.folsomstreeteast.org

Shopping Frenzy

2007-06-14T01:00:00.000-04:00

Loyal readers of this blog know that I've been burning up the Internet shopping for shoes, stockings, costumes, lingerie and yes ...... leather. I have several new leather pieces that just might make their debut at one of the many parties that will be held this weekend. If you are planning to attend any of these events, drop Me an email!

For those of you that can't make this parties, look for a new leather and latex gallery to be added to My website. I have several photo shoots scheduled when I return from My southern tour.

Leather Pride Weekend Line-up

2007-06-13T23:19:00.000-04:00

Whether you're a leather fetishist or just love to support the scene, here are a few events to consider.

Thursday, June 14th - 7-8pm
Arena Studio presents:

Sex Worker Visions II art show talk & tour with $pread Magazine's
Executive Editor Eliyanna Kaiser and Art Director Hadassah Hill

Then stay for a play party hosted by Mistress Ardenne & puppydog john

The Soiree
a playful and intimate celebration of kink
@ Arena Studios
407 Broome Street, 7A
Thursday, June 14th, 2007, 8pm - 1am

Dress Code: Leather of any and all kinds to celebrate Leather Pride
(All black, formal, or other fetish wear is also acceptable.)

Tickets: $40 at the door (food/beverage included)
portion of proceeds to benefit the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

more info & tickets also available:
www.arenastudios.com
www.nycsubclub.org
www.rapturenyc.com
212.889.1591

Friday, June 15th: 9pm
The Lure Returns for one night only!
52 Walker Street, (one block south of Canal Street). $15 admission,
fetish attire requested.

Saturday, June 16th: NYC's 24th Annual Leather Pride Night
socialize, raise money for worthy causes, and shop for fabulous bargains from the more than one hundred items, including leather and latex fetish clothing, unique toys and equipment, art objects, Broadway theater tickets, and much more, plus afterwards you can stay and dance the night away.

Doors open at 6:00 PM, and the auction will run from 7 PM until 10:00 PM
Glamour diva and community activist Trai La Trash keeping the evening moving. This year, Leather Pride Night will donate the 2007 Auction proceeds to The National Council for Sexual Freedom, God's Love We Deliver, Ali Forney Center, Leather Archives & Museum, and, as is customary, an annual donation to Heritage of Pride, the producer of New York's annual Pride March.

The venue is Splash, located at 50 W. 17th Street.

10PM until..........
Stay late at Splash for the Fetish Dance (free with an LPN ticket), or go to Paddles, where The Eulenspiegel Society will be hosting a play party.
All clubs and all genders are welcome.
Paddles is located at 250 West 26th Street. For more information visit:
www.leatherpridenight.org or http://www.tes.org.

Tickets for Leather Pride Night are $15 in advance, and $20 at the door.

Sunday, June 17th:
There’s more shopping, drinking, and socializing at Folsom Street East, the largest outdoor fetish themed fair on the east coast.
For information on the "hottest" day in New York, visit http://folsomstreeteast.org.

Later that day, Lesbian Sex Mafia will be hosting a women and trans BDSM Play Party from 5:00 PM to 11:00 PM at Paddles. www.LesbianSexMafia.org.

Tuesday, June 19th:
Continue the Leather Pride celebration with Cinekink’s kinky movie lineup including; ORIGINAL PRIDE:THE SATYRS MOTORCYCLE CLUB, a historical look at a vital group of Harley-riding, bearded and leather-clad men and the impact they continue to have on the leather community today.
7pm@ The Pioneer theater NYC: Information and tickets: http://www.cinekink.com/pioneer/

Southern Tour Dates

2007-06-10T12:12:00.000-04:00

It's that time again - time to hit the road! Due to the early heat this year, it will be more like gracing a City with My presence rather than an on-the-go tour. The lucky areas - Washington DC Metro area (Tyson's Corner) and Atlanta, Ga (Perimeter).

That's right NY, I know the City will seem just a little less bright that last week of June during My absence, but rest assured, no matter where I travel, I always look forward to returning to the City I love. I'll return home after July 4th.

June 22 - 24 Washington DC
June 25 - 28 Atlanta

As always, look for travel dates here and Eros.com I have had wonderful response from both these areas and am already planning a return trip to DC. Boston, have no fear, I will back! Thanks for the emails!!

Baby Needs a New Pair of Shoes

2007-05-25T00:54:00.000-04:00

Hell, I hate being called baby, but I sure do LOVE shoes. So what does a Domina do when the pollen count skyrockets and forces Her to seek the filtered air of Her lovely apartment? She shops on line! The pollen count best fall soon, or My credit cards will spontaneously combust!

This week has been marked by some new dresses, a shorts set, several sets of bras and panties, and 7 new pairs of shoes (a few for Me and some for play)! I wish I could say that My shopping is complete for the season, but alas, tomorrow I'll be ordering a vintage style nurses uniform. Then there is the matter of more stocking from Secrets in Lace and the perfect garter belt for that nurse's uniform!

Of course, with all those new toe baring shoes, I'll just have to get pedicures even more often -- > Lucky Me!

Fetish Marathon and other Kinky Events

2007-05-23T11:37:00.000-04:00

With so much happening in the world of kink, it's hard to know where to start!

Perhaps it's best to start were we've been and then we can move on to were we're going. It's hard to beleive that Red Hot Ice happened nearly a week ago. As always, anything hosted by the creative minds at Arena Studios, it was a top shelf event with every detail expertly tended to. A great time was had by all!

While the vanilla world awaits the long Memorial day weekend, the kinky crowd anxiously awaits the Fetish Marathon the following weekend. This year however, there is a huge twist in the schedule. The focal point of the weekend, and for many the highlight of the entire NY Scene, the highly acclaimed Black and Blue Ball, will be held in the fall and not during the Fetish Marathon. I'm sure there will still be enough kink to put even the most hard core player into overdrive with events Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights begining June1.

RED HOT ICE event

2007-05-07T11:52:00.000-04:00

Clear your calendars for an erotic benefit event that is sure to be the talk of the town!

Hurricane Katrina Reconstruction Benefit

May 18th @ Club Sol

Winter Ice fantasy meets Spicy Hot Mardis Gras
The perfect celebration of Spring and Sultry Sexuality
View website for details about performers and tickets.

Are You Being Served?

2007-04-16T08:54:00.000-04:00

I recently acquired a sissy maid and am really looking forward to her start date. I can't wait to see her don the uniform!

While I am a diva, I am not a Domestic Goddess. Sure, I am a hell of a cook, I can sew and can plan the perfect dinner party, but My cleaning will never get me into Good Housekeeping. Perhaps to be more precise, the house isn't dirty, just very cluttered and disorganized.

Being a sissy maid is serious business. To bring someone into my home, it couldn't be about being "fantasy" maid. To serve Me personally it takes a serious dedication. Do you think you have what it takes? Take the test and find out!

http://www.lesmalheursdesophie.com/maid-test.html

PS - Who caught the title reference?

Where is My spring weather?

2007-04-06T14:35:00.000-04:00

Okay, where is spring and My warm weather. Mother Nature is not cooperating and may even to be conspiring against me in order to force my toes back into hiding. So, in a defiant mood today, I treated myself to a "Master" pedicure and had them paint my toes red! If you're a fan, have read my blog or viewed my website you probably know that I am totally loyal to french manicures and matching pedicures. That's right, despite desperate pleas from my foot fans, I never do red. Well, never say never.

While science may disagree, I believe the spring "toe" obsession is virtually hard coded on the female DNA. Along with a new Easter bonnet, every young girl looked forward to a new pair of shoes to complete that special Easter ensemble. You can bet the farm, with absolute certainty, that from the time I was old enough to have ANY input in the matter, I opted for any style shoe that set my toes free.

The shoe pictured here, is the one I'll be sporting this Sunday. These BCBGirls "Lacey" Slingbacks were a gift - a gift that causes the warm fuzzys every time I see them. The clean line of a the sling back is sexy and sophisticated; a timeless classic. These beauties were the inspiration for my red polish rebellion.

So Sunday, no matter how cold, I'll be in my Easter Bonnet and my red toes will be on display!!

The Corporate Dominatrix

2007-04-05T12:08:00.000-04:00

The Daily News had an interesting article in it's lifestyle section. It's worth the read, even if part of their premise is a bit off. I agree with the aurthor in that the skills that made me successful in the corporate world are the same skills that make me a good Domme, or perhaps vice versa. However, I take exception with an assumption made early on in the article. I don't "switch" to being "submissive", I just know which battles are worth fighting!

Take the test. I did and no surprise, my score fell in the Highly Dominant area (If you got a score of 25 or more, you're a highly dominant - an Amazon or a Queen) but was not so high that I qualify as "Queen Bitch".

Blog Notes

2007-04-05T09:20:00.000-04:00

Just a quick point of clarification on the general usage of the comment section of a blog. The comment section of a blog is a place to publicly voice your opinions. I value that input and post the ones that are appropriate for public reading.

Lately I have been getting notes that are better directed to Me via email. I moderate all comments, thus the general public won't see comments until I approve the content. Comments are generally anonymous , and leave Me no way to contact you privately, leaving your comment unanswered. I will not carry on dialogues in a public forum that are best handled via email. I enjoy reading your comments and hope to continue to receive them via the comment area or by email.

Please note, all session and possible session questions and or requests are not appropriate material for the comment area. My email address is MistressWylona@gmail.com

Springtime Soiree - A Foot Forward for Charity

2007-04-04T22:13:00.000-04:00

A Public Service Announcement

When:
April 19th, 2007
8pm - 1am

Where:
Soho area (address given upon ticket purchase)

Reservations required.
RSVP 212-889-1591

Donation: $50
All proceeds go to the MS Prison Project & NYC Sub Club

Dress Code:
Victorian, Pin-up, Silent Film Star, Old Hollywood,
Geisha, 1940s Military, Louis XIV, or other Sophisticated Fabulousness.
And lots of spring sandals to showcase scrumptious toes!

Spring Tease

2007-04-04T09:59:00.000-04:00

Warm weather elicits difference responses from people; few are immune to it's pull. For me the return of the warm weather means my toes will be freed from the bonds of shoes. As soon as the firm glimps of warmth appeared, I went shoe shopping. New summer sandals. Pretty jeweled thongs. Perhaps I'll try some of the new wedge heels in a summer staw. Either way, it means even more frequent pedicures.

As if My shoe fetish needed further fuel, a series of TV commericals have caught my attnetion. Try this one if you love the look of women in heels! The one from Macy's that I've seen on TV is also great but I can't find it on line.

Score One for Free Speech

2007-03-23T17:40:00.000-04:00

Eliminating "Pornography on the Web" has been an issue for politicians; an issue for the vocal minority but certainly not for those that spend Billions on-line in sex related websites. While I agree that there is content on line that should not be viewed by minors, I don't agree that congress has the right to ban the content completely. Apparently lots of people feel that way. The 1998 Child Online Protection Act (COPA) is Congress' second attempt to limit internet content. COPA has never been fully enacted and it feel off the the radar for most - that is until last year. Fortunately for all us, the most recent attempt to censor internet content was squashed but there is still reason to be concerned.

For more be sure to read the article and in particular the heading "What if the Bush administration wins?"

Fetish Party Scene

2007-03-11T20:01:00.000-04:00

According to The Baroness, "any occasion to dress is an occasion to overdress". So last Sunday I ventured downtown to check out Her monthly Fetish Review. I was decked out in a stunning purple latex suit by Vex Clothing and dangerously high platform shoes to see what the NY fetish community considered "couture". I found a few deliciously clad latex divas, sporting ensembles that could bring out the green-eyed envy monster in us all, but in general the fashion part of the evening was disappointing. What made the night well worth My time were the people.

Tonight I'll venture out to the monthly Byte party. I'll be sporting a new made-to-order wardrobe piece - this time in leather. Daringly short and made to show off those vintage stockings so many of you are fond of, this piece isn't for the shy! It's more open bottom girdle than skirt with a short zippered front and lacing up the back like a corset; paired with a thong, it's the perfect piece to show off my lovely full backside. More than a bit too risque to wear out in public, well covered by a trench coat the vanilla world will be none the wiser enroute to the event and once safely inside, the Byte crowd will be treated to a nice view of the Mistress's rear end . Topping off the ensemble is a delightful new corset, perfect for my tight lacing tendencies. This handsomely finished, double-boned corset was designed by Shane Aaron. If you haven't seen his pieces, check them out at Purple Passion - they are worth every penny!!! I now have two of his corsets and know they are only the beginning of my collection from him. And of course no outfit is complete without sinful shoes! A simple 8" platform black leather mule is the perfect accessory to show off the lovely Cuban heel of those Dita Van Tesse inspired hose.

I've Moved to a New Studio Space!!

2007-03-08T00:08:00.000-05:00

That's right, the long awaited move has finally happened. I know I was scheduled to move to a new Midtown space in June, but that space fell through for a variety of reasons I won't go into. I have spent the week searching for a space that had all the qualities that I wanted and finally found the perfect space - in Soho!!

The studio is in the trendy Soho area on Broome Street. The space is professionally managed, meticulously kept, absolutely beautiful and fully equipped. This space has a full shower as well. I'm certain that you'll enjoy the atmosphere of this space as much as I do!!

As I might have mentioned to you in your last session, due to the move, all sessions will be subject to the new tribute rates.

Travels

2007-03-01T14:14:00.000-05:00

Last trip I wrote about was Boston. Bean town was great and I will be going back every 4 to 6 weeks. I'll post the dates here and in the future look for me on Eros. That's right I'll be traveling a great deal over the summer, so check there often to see if I'll be in a city near you!

Happy Valentine's Day

2007-02-14T15:30:00.000-05:00

So you may wonder, How Does a ProDomme Spend Valentine' Day?

Ah, it might be nice to be selfish and attend an exquisite fetish event but as a loving, giving, nurturing Domme, I'll spend it with a few special clients and for me that will be equally rewarding! Beyond the obvious delicious play time in which I participate, giving has brought me other rewards. I've often said that a mother is judged by the nature of her children and a Domme, by the quality of her clients. I'm blessed on both accounts, especially since mommy role play is a big request.

So far Valentine's day has brought me many cards, e-cards, original poetic verses, and gifts that range from thoughtful to extravagant. The most exquisite gift is one that I can share with all of you - a gift that will keep on giving. A very special "son" surprised me with a stunning Share Aaron custom corset from Purple Passion. The folks there know my sizes and tastes and were happy to help him indulge me. When I have my next set of pictures done, I know you'll enjoy the look of this stunning piece.

My wish to all of you reading my blog is to experience in your lives the kind of joy I get from sharing time and energy with the special people that enter my world. BDSM, at it's simplest, is often described as an energy exchange. To exchange anything you must be willing to give AND receive. The activity one chooses (spanking, bondage, etc) is just a transport mechanism to a place, sometimes referred to as "head space". While understanding the mental state one wishes to achieve through play is critical, a good top knows it's how one reaches beyond your head into your heart and soul that makes play time truly memorable. So from my heart, I hope you'll remember to live, love, lust and dwell in joy on this very special of Holidays and through out the rest of your days!

Valentine's Day Shoppers Disappointed in KY

2007-02-14T12:49:00.000-05:00

After I wrote that title I realized many of you might think KY as in jelly rather than KY as in Kentucky. But that would be silly since we all know the jelly is an old standby for a reason.

The let down is in the state of Kentucky where late minute gift givers will NOT be finding high-end lingerie for sale at rock bottom prices. Warehouse manager Christopher Perry stole $15,000 of Victoria's Secret lingerie from the warehouse where he worked near Cincinnati/Northern Kentucky International Airport. His plan was to sell these items, but in an odd turn of events, his ex-girlfriend turned him in to the authorities. I guess she didn't like what he picked out for her!

The Good Old Days are Gone

2007-02-14T09:17:00.000-05:00

While this image may be delightful, it's quite plain that if the courts have their way, these types of images won't be part of future pop-culture: today's children won't have the frame of reference.

If you follow spanking in the news, you've no doubt noticed that there's been a push to make spankings illegal in several states. We're not talking about severe beatings which are clearly abusive, we talking about the entire act!

Without getting into the amount of wasted time, energy and money by government officials and the groups pushing for these laws, Echo Online, has made some very interesting observations about our changing times.

For so many of us, the thought of being taken over a parent's knee for discipline was often enough to make us think again about getting into trouble. I know my parents felt that reasoning with us kids was always best AFTER the spanking! I don't think what they had to say would have been as well received if they skipped the part that ensured my attention. Don't get me wrong, spankings don't eliminate the need to talk to kids about whatever they did or didn't do. And based on the behavior I see in most kids today, lectures don't eliminate the need for the spankings; by themselves lectures simple don't work. Spare the rod, spoil a generation!

Read the article and give me your opinion.

Wylona in Bean Town

2007-02-12T12:58:00.000-05:00

I'll be in Boston and still have some available session times. I'll arrive Wednesday early morning and will leave Thursday evening, February 21th and 22st. Visit my website and read the session information page, then call Me to book!

A Spanking Good Time in South Carolina

2007-02-12T12:25:00.000-05:00

I spent my weekend in lovely Columbia, SC giving a few lessons to the sweet southern couple who own First Blush Films. I couldn't wait to play with Miss Annabelle. After I introduced her to a little bondage and showed her how much fun she could have with a strap-on, she was willing to play however I wanted. And you all know that I wanted her over my lap!

I dressed her up in my clothes and after a little snuggle time and foot play, I took her over my lap on the bed. Her bare bottom looked even sweeter as it went from milky white to rosey red under my hand. She was even a good sport and let me use my leather strap on her. I can't wait to play with her again. We've already set up another play date for July.

The World of Mistress Wylona - Firm Hands, Red Cheeks is just the first of many clips they'll have in their store, so check there often to see what's new!

Photo Shoot Updates

2007-02-06T10:45:00.000-05:00

I have scheduled two photo shoots in the next few weeks in order to update the website. To hold you over until then, I will treat you with these "PG Rated" shots from the shoot I did for Aunt Judy’s . There are now over 700 explicit pictures of Me (too explicit to post here) on their site, with plenty more to come. So if you like pink, check out their site! Sorry, there are no pictures of me in the free areas, you'll have to join.

By now you all know my affinity for vintage inspired fashion. The perfect latex ensemble just arrived and I must say, my ass looks great clad in purple latex! My boobs don't look bad either (wink, wink). I'm sure you’re squirming with anticipation to see that outfit to be featured in my picture gallery. Look for updated pictures to be on the website in the very near future. I was waiting for my custom leather pieces to be ready prior to scheduling my next shoot, but they have been further delayed and I don't want to keep you waiting too long.

In the meantime, I am shooting a few fetish scenes for First Blush Films this weekend. When they are posted in their clips for sale site, I will post the link on my website along with the other film links.

Going Under

2007-01-31T15:39:00.000-05:00

Despite all accounts I have not fallen off the planet! Just as the gray of winter was taking it's toll, the sun came out and all things brightened up. The phone has been ringing off the hook with exciting projects and fun sessions.

The most recent film project is one I'm very excited about. Going Under is a film that made a big splash at Cinekink The film will be released on DVD. The film sums up the plot as:

Peter, a psychotherapist, and Suzanne, a professional dominatrix, have been meeting once a week for over two years. In the privacy of a dungeon room in an S & M house, Suzanne delicately pierces, prods and ultimately soothes Peter as they engage in sensual dominance and submission reenactments

The real undercurrents of the plot are more interesting. During their play the professional line is broken and each falls for the other. The release of the DVD will include "Bonus Footage" that features interviews with ProDommes. Yours Truly was interviewed and hopefully some of that interview will make the final cut for the DVD release. I'll keep you posted but either way, it's a film I recommend.

Look for posts about other up coming projects!

Seeking the Connection

2007-01-11T23:20:00.000-05:00

I'd been feeling a bit of the winter blues, but the article that showed up in my in-box and a very touching email have really put a big smile back on my face and a song back in my heart.

Most people don't understand what it's like to be a ProDomme. If you're good, and I am, you open up emotionally for your clients - expose that which most people keep bottled up in hopes it will protect them from emotional pain. In truth, that just cuts off the ability to connect, to feel, to truly live. As a Domme empathy for your bottom can leave you drained if you're not careful. It's a balancing game, and in any game there are winners and losers. I feel quite blessed, I have won far more than most. When you complete the connection, the energy exchange, the very essence of BDSM, leaves you energized.

The article attached talks about the rare client that wants an extreme session but mentions that about 1/2 of Her sessions are "light". Do Not confuse light with superficial. I'd say that for Me, about 3/4 would fall in that light category - if we only measure levels of discipline. However, the level of raw emotion in many of those sessions are so intense, that I would hardly call them light. Recently, in one session, the magic was so intense, that both Top and bottom melded to a perfect union; the melody and rhythm of that session turned the mild into something wild. It's a session that I will not soon forget. The note that arrived in my in box shortly afterwards, is the very reason I session; the reason I put it all on the line every time I agree to do a session.

So I'd like to thank a very special music teacher from Long Island. Thanks for reminding me why I am a ProDomme.

"Brown Noser" Video Hits #1

2007-01-04T09:03:00.000-05:00

Everyone starts somewhere and, at least I'm starting at the top of something! The short vignettes I shot for Dutchess Von Stern Productions, were recently posted to two of HER clips for sale sites.

"I Love Brown Nosers, Smell My Ass Hole" is currently the #1 selling clip on the Forced Face Sitting and Smothering site.

It would appear that the viewing public has spoken: My ass and other below the waist sweet spots ("Eat my Sweet Candy Pussy" is currently in 3rd place on that site) have more appeal than images of me spanking, which are currently is located in her Female Domination site.

The sites linked to are owned by Dutchess Von Stern.

The Graying of Naughty

2007-01-01T17:23:00.000-05:00

Baby boomers being in the news is nothing new, so the fact this NY Times article was about them is not what prompted this blog entry. As one of the youngest baby boomers (1964), I appreciate that as we age, we're not allowing ourselves to be marginalized. But I've addressed that before, most recently on my birthday. What makes this article particularly interesting is the fact that we're making a big impact on an industry that was once seen as the playground for the young, beautiful and well endowed. The boomers are changing the porn industry.

Perhaps plastic perky boobs aren't what everyone wants to see. Apparently, people of all ages want to see real people, people like you and me, with a few laugh lines and maybe a few extra pounds enjoying sex. This appeals to the younger men with Mrs. Robinson fantasies and the men of our generation that don’t want to see “kids” the same age as their own or perhaps even the age of their grand daughters! Many of the "mature" film stars are married and their spouses support this change in careers. I think that's great!! That is one of the reasons I do adult films as well as my Fetish work. I enjoy sex and that isn’t changing with age, if anything, it’s gotten better for me.

I know that you understand that while I DON'T have sex with my clients, and DON'T offer it in session, I LOVE sex and partake of it VERY often, as I'm sure all of you do as well. So, even if you’re not lucky enough to find my Adult work be sure to support the adult film industry and the mature actors that are making sure we baby boomers don't go quietly into that good night.

The Good, Bad and the Ugly - Year in Review

2006-12-31T16:26:00.000-05:00

Well there isn't much left to 2006 and I can't help but hope that 2007 will offer more. And, like everyone else, I'm hoping the "more" comes in the categories of things I actually want! Personally, 2006 was a pretty good year. My exposure increased significantly with the help of this blog, my website, videos and pictorials. And in those items right there, lies the good and bad and ugly. Let me explain.

As many of you have noticed, I'm a real perfectionist - a consummate professional - just one reason I do my own website design. Shooting content for others means I have to give up some control - very hard for a Domme! Nevertheless, I know that these projects give you greater access to me and that's a good thing. So, while I may not love every minute of every project, I am usually quite pleased with the result. Ultimately, you are the final judge of the content.

I have several new items that have recently made their way into cyberspace. The picture in this post is just 1 of 124 new, explicit pictures on one of the largest MILF sites. If you want to see lots of great close ups of the parts that I keep well hidden in session, this site is perfect for you. It is a Members Only site, so you'll need to pay for a membership but I KNOW you'll get more than your money's worth if you only look at my set of pictures!! As a member, they make it easy for you to download and store these images, so you can look at them over and over again. Perfect for those of you too far away to session with me often.

Join by clicking here
NOTE: My name isn't listed in Model Directory yet, but it is listed under the recent updates - Tuesday Treat #316 Big Tits on 12/26/o6.

So: Join, Log in, scroll down page to the Tuesday Treat #316 and treat yourself to 124 VERY revealing pictures of Me --> What a great way to start out your New Year!

Sincere Thanks

2006-12-19T16:15:00.000-05:00

I wanted to send my appreciation to those of you that expressed well wishes for my recent birthday through emails, e-cards, e-gift cards or those that brought gifts to your sessions. If a Dominant is judged by the depth devotion given, I shall be well judged.

Just for the record, for those of you that have asked, yes, I did win in Atlantic City. The craps tables were good to me. So I now have a new black leather skirt as a result. Look for new pictures after the Holidays in that hot number!!

MistressWylona

Orlando in the News Again

2006-12-14T23:26:00.000-05:00

No not Orlando, Florida, but Janet Orlando. Remember her? She has had more than her 15 minutes! She gets spanked at work, sues and wins 1.7 M (she gets $800,000 of that) She then does the whirlwind talk show tour. Then, after an appeal, she agrees to settle the case for 1.4 Million. And then, before you can turn around, she's in the news again as she's caught shop lifting - for the THIRD time in the past three years. She pleads no contest to the charges, as she had done before. Now she's suing her former company once again because she hasn't seen the settlement money. She wants her 1.4 million plus interest PLUS another 4.2 million in punitive damages.

Maybe it's me, but.... she got spanked because she had poor performance as a salesperson and now is getting rewarded for a job poorly done! She has a history of theft and prescription drug abuse and yet this is the person that Fresno City College invites to be a guest lecturer. Is this really the person we want addressing our country's future leaders?

It's Only a Number, Right?

2006-12-06T14:22:00.000-05:00

Age, it's only a number and yet as a society we're obsessed with it. In just 10 short days I will turn 42. I've been listing my age as 42 since the start of this quarter. I have no issues associated with age or the counting of years or the advancement there of. I don't feel the need to shave off a few years for vanity sake like so many women. Heck, I even know men that lie to themselves about their age. I'm proud of my age and all the experiences that I've had along the way.

Oh, don't get me wrong, I know I had a different - some might say better - shape 20 years ago, but I wouldn't want to turn back the clocks for anything. I'm smarter, more secure and personally feel I'm sexier than ever. Aging has given me greater insight inside myself and the male psyche. I really believe I'm on the right path, I really like who I am, I love what I do and I'm excited about the possibilities of where I might yet go.

I think being a woman in her 40's is about being in " power". I know what I like, I know what I want, I know how to get it and I'm willing to reach out and take it! I wish more women would celebrate their age. I know I'm fucking fabulous at 42 and I'm sure that I will only continue to get better.

So, on 12/16 raise a glass of wine (break out the good stuff - I'm worth it) and toast me for my birthday! I'll be celebrating in Atlantic City and I'll think fondly of all of you.

Bottoms Up Program Went Belly Up, but I Give it a Thumbs Up

2006-12-05T09:00:00.000-05:00

It's always a good day when spanking shows up in the news!

The North County Gazette brought a smile to brought a smile to my face with an article about Warren, Ohio. As a Manhattan gal, this would not have come to my attention without the Internet. Isn't life wonderful?

It seems a police chief felt regular discipline sessions for teens that got into trouble would do more good than those programs and sanctions already in the legal system. Good try, but now the officer has his hands full of legal trouble with numerous convictions and a pending suit. Interestingly though, it seems that the jury didn't consider these spankings assault and those charges didn't stick.

What I would really like to know is if the program worked!

Website Updated

2006-12-03T23:59:00.000-05:00

My last photoshoot was a real success thanks to a very talented fan. The hardest part was getting the pictures on-line. I am solely responsible for all the work that goes into my website. So, after far too many hours spent today, there are finally several new pages with pictures as well as updates to existing pages.

So please, check out the site and send me your comments.

Mistress Wylona

More New Pictures

2006-11-30T23:55:00.000-05:00

Just a few pictures from the shoot this past weekend. I will posts lots of new feet, leg and ass shots to my website as time permits.

More Celebs into Spanking

2006-11-24T16:26:00.000-05:00

I wrote a while ago about the pop legend Carly Simon admitting she gets spanked backstage before performances, well it seems that a young singer recently also publically admitted she's into spanking. While I can’t claim to know anything about her music, Sugababes singer Amelle Berrabah claims she loves being spanked in bed and that makes her okay in my book! Check out the story

A Time and Place for Everything.....Especially a "Lingerie Fetish"

2006-11-17T21:30:00.000-05:00

Now I like a cross-dressing boy as much as (okay, maybe perhaps more than) the next gal, but just like mom always said, "there's a time and place for everything". Needless to say, the workplace is NOT the place, unless of course you work in a Dungeon. Now, I can't prove it, but I'm sure there are a few employees that might say that working at Verizon (check out the article) is like working a Dungeon, but that doesn't make it right place to "air" your clean or dirty lingerie. Always remember the first rule of BDSM---Safe, Sane and Consensual.

This subject brings to light a real pet pieve of mine -- what makes people think we have the right to subject the general public to our kink? Playing in public isn't always a bad thing but it can be if there is anyone that can tell you're playing and they didn't agree to be a witness or to be involved in anyway. We DO have the right to endulge ourselves if we follow the rules above - safe, sane and consensual. If we follow those rules perhaps the "general public" wouldn't feel the need to regulate our fun!

So if there are any cissy boys, lingerie fetishists, or cross dressing boys that need an outlet, call your local Domme--we're here to help!!

New Pictures on Website

2006-11-13T01:05:00.000-05:00

Just a few new pictures for my fans. My next Photoshoot will be after Thanksgiving. It will focus on feet and leg pictures. So pray for a few good ones!!

Exciting Weekend

2006-11-12T19:30:00.000-05:00

The last several days have been a complete whirlwind of activity. Wednesday was the last session day of the week and it was filled with spanking sessions. I call that a great way to kick off an exciting working weekend.

Thursday - a full day photo shoot in Connecticut. Most of my work has been video shoots so a full day of posing for stills was an exciting prospect. So soon you'll get to see Wylona on one of the big MILF sites in various roleplaying outfits and doing solo dildo work (something you DON'T get to see in session). The day was very long but the pictures surpass anything I have on my site - I know you'll all just love them. As soon as they are on line I will be sure to post a link. In fact, the pictures were so good, I am thinking of hiring this studio for pictures for my website.

A Deserved Spanking

2006-11-05T12:50:00.000-05:00

As most of you know I'm really into domestic discipline. It's unfortunate that we don't see too many young people in the spanking scene, perhaps its subtleties are lost on those attracted to the flash of edge play. But those who read my posts know the thrill of a well delivered spanking!

It's good to hear from so many new people inquiring about spankings. How many of us remember our first spanking? How many of us play it over and over again in our heads? I think someimes even we tend to underestimate the power of the act.

I found this article written about an 89 year old woman. It's not about the scene but the last line caught my attention......

When she had me undressed, she applied her hand where it would do the most good! I knew then that I was alive.

Sexy the New Scary?

2006-10-29T22:45:00.000-05:00

Just when did adults hijack Halloween? Halloween used to mean Charlie Brown's Great Pumpkin special and lots of candy for the "little kids".

More than one newspaper has run stories about the growing Halloween market. Estimates are that this year nearly 5 million dollars will be spent on candy, decorations and costumes. The number of parties held rivals the numbers for New Years Eve and the Super Bowl. But when did Halloween become super sexed?

From the link above:

Of course, risqué outfits have always been a part of the holiday for some women. But there are two differences now. The tart look has gone mainstream -- and the girls who are wearing it are much younger.

"We're seeing 12-year-olds buying them," says Sumanasa Jyoti, who manages a Halloween Headquarters store in Santa Cruz that is open year-round. "I'm amazed that they buy them, but they do. A lady came in the other day and bought a sexy ladybug costume for her 7- and 8-year-olds."

Don't get me wrong - I LOVE sexy clothes and think it's great that fetish clothes are more and more main stream, BUT when costume companies are making French Maid costumes for toddlers, even I start to think sexy is being pushed out to the public a little too hard.

Call me a prude if you like but I prefer my sex and sexy activities to be between consenting adults.

Does Size Matter?

2006-10-14T17:00:00.000-04:00

"Does size matter?" That's sounds like a question tossed about by the women on Sex in the City or Desperate Housewives, but it's apparently an international question. Perhaps I should clarify a bit; we’re talking about women here and NOT men and their size issues!

An article posted just a few hours ago in the Kuwait Times reveals that women there are concerned about size -- the size of their feet! It seems that in the Middle East, even with all that region is going through, women care about shoes, feet and esthetics. Go figure. For those of you not familiar with the Euro shoe sizing mentioned in the article - a size 35 equates to American size 5, Euro 38 to American 7 1/2 and a 40 to a size 9. In the article a size 38 was considered to be too large. Women here complain that having a size 5 or smaller foot means less options in shoes while women there think that size is more ideal.

Me, I love my size 7 feet. They suit me perfectly and I never have complaints that they aren't feminine!

So Begins the Debate

2006-10-11T23:05:00.000-04:00

Where do some people keep their brains?

USA Today's article on spanking has sparked a heated debate. And true to form, there is always someone who says something stupid!

And the stupid quote award goes to ....... Robert Fathman He is quoted as saying, "If you bring a child up and you're spanking them, they're more likely to hit an animal, a pet......"

Does the ASPCA know about this?

Spankings - Do They Lead to Success

2006-10-10T22:15:00.000-04:00

Much to my delight, spanking is in the news again! It seems that if you spare the rod, you may really spoil the child - spoil their shot at corporate success, that is.

USA Today asked top CEOs about being spanked as children. It turns out that many top CEOs believe spankings taught them the discipline they needed to achieve success.

Some people feel this sends parents the wrong message--NOT. Most of today's CEOs grew up during a time in the US when spakings were given freely and often to correct behavior and serve as a deterant for future lapses in judgement. The phrase "wait till your Father/Mother gets home" was terrifying to many kids. It wasn't a threat but a promise. Today's parents often threaten punishment that is never delivered. When punishment is levied, most favor withholding privlidges or taking away items like game systems. Not nearly the same thing in my book!

The unruly behavior we are forced to endure daily on the subway, on buses or in resturants would not have been tolerated by My parent's generation. I certainly didn't tolerate it from My children. Is this behavior simply a product of changing times or due to a change in discipline habits?

Why No Recent Posts

2006-10-09T09:25:00.000-04:00

your Mistress has been working hard on Her latest project - a new website. Content takes time to write and format, so My energy outside of sessions has been spent writing HTML and of course, in pursuit of "personal pleasures"(you didn't expect Me to give that up!!).

Check out the Session Interests page to get an idea of My interests outside of spanking.

Look for new content to be posted soon on chastity and key holding which fit in nicely with My fondness for domestic discipline.

Expanded Hours and Days

2006-09-26T03:04:00.000-04:00

Sometimes when you ask, I not only acknowledge the request, I grant it! In this case it was to add some early morning hours and to post the Saturdays I will be working well in advance.
So begining this Thursday I will be offering sessions starting at 9 am for those of that would like to play before starting your work day. For now, I will offer these early hours only on Thursdays. Please book these early sessions at least 24 hours in advance.
My next Saturday play times will be September 30th and October 28th.
Please note that as a general rule I am in my play space Mondays, Thursdays and Fridays from 11:00 am until 8:00 pm unless you make arrangements in advance. Same days appointments will be honored for sessions during regular working hours.

Polite calling hours are 9:00 am to 10:00 pm
917-868-5526

Make an appointment to play with me - Role Play, Bondage or Fetish

2006-09-20T10:31:00.000-04:00

Rubinesque, experienced and mature. A dominatrix with a stunning hour glass figure, I am Mistress Wylona. Some of you may have seen me, or at least parts of me, in fetish films - Facesitting, Big Boob Play, BBW Trampling or perhaps in other adult roles.

My short stature accentuates my curvy frame which begins with 36F all natural breasts, a narrowed waist, which serves it`s purpose -- leading your eyes to a favorite feature -- my full ass and generous, powerful thighs. A thick figure perfect for worship or for breath control games.

I`m a lifestyle player that understands the delicate subtleties of role-play -- the balance of discipline to nurture. I can be the strict governess you need or the doting mommy you crave, either way, I`m the MILF you dream about.

See me in my secure play space near Macy's Herald Square. My attitude is professional, I expect yours to be the same.

Polite calling hours are 10 am - 10 pm. 917-868-5526 All polite messages are returned.

Serious and respectful inquires only. NOT Full Service - so don't even ask.

Mistress Wylona

Feet, Toes and Shoes

2006-09-13T23:55:00.000-04:00

Wednesday has come and is nearly gone. Thursday is normally pedicure day, but I guess my toes were sucked a bit more than usual this week and it couldn't wait till tomorrow! Pedicures focus on the feet and toes and of course a good technician gives some attention to the calf. For me those are just the building blocks for my obsession which is SHOES. It's also fashion week here in NY, so everywhere you go someone is buzzing over who is showing what in their collection. The latest fashion for the season interests me, but really, it's all about the shoes.

I have always had a love affair with shoes. Bare feet and bare legs don't do it for me and the shoes themselves aren't enough to make me drool. It's about the complete package - how the right shoe can make the foot and leg a thing of great beauty. I've had this obsession for a very long time.

My first part time job was babysitting. It was a neighborhood of all new construction and there was a shortage of older girls, so I started young. It was a much needed occupation so my parent's neighbors could escape the boredom of their middle class suburban existence. I started babysitting the neighbor's children when I was in 6th grade. While other gals were taking their loot to the mall to buy records (CDs didn't exist yet) I was shopping for shoes! I had a host of totally impractical shoes for a person my age but it didn't matter, I knew that I looked hot and that I felt powerful in those shoes.

That obsession continued through HS but didn't truly go into high gear until I could drive. It was then that my love of shoes spread to the love of stockings, but we'll save that obsession for another day.

Where is this all going? Salvatore Ferragamo died before I was born, but his mark on shoe fashion cannot be disputed. I knew his name long before I knew the extent that his work would impact my life. I thought all girls dreamed of owning a pair of Ferragamo's. A new book Walking Dreams recently hit the shelves and is a must read for anyone with a shoe or foot fetish. This book explores the life and work of this renowned shoe designer. This is the man that dared to play with new and unique materials and who introduced the stiletto heel! Where would we be without that heel?

Spankee becomes a popculture icon

2006-09-13T10:00:00.000-04:00

Wikipedia is communal resource that contains not only typical encyclopedic material but reflects pop culture as well. Janet Orlando has made the grade. I guess she gets more than just 15 minutes of fame. Just goes to prove my favorite quote, "Well behaved women rarely make history".

"Busting" the Record

2006-09-12T18:12:00.000-04:00

Just a fun item that was in the newspaper today. Normally when someone breaks a Guinness world record, I don't get very excited, but this is one that made me pay attention!

How fast can you undo a clasped bra and how many can you undo in a minute? If you think your technique needs some work, the new record holder offers some tips (no pun intended) Read more here

New Legal Trouble for Spankee

2006-09-12T10:07:00.000-04:00

Remember 53 year old Janet Orlando? It seems she has some new legal problems entirely of her own making. Read Details Here

Not too bright is she? Does shoplifting qualify her for a spanking? I wish I could be the judge on that one! I would love to hear your thoughts on this.

Spanking in the Workplace

2006-09-11T23:11:00.000-04:00

What a lovely day for me. I really enjoy role play scenes that include spankings. That isn't always the fantasy I get to orchestrate, but today, I was blessed in that two sessions were discipline scenes that fit me to a tee. One was mommy role play with an across the lap spanking, the other, head school mistress with paddling. So while I get to enjoy giving a good spanking at work, it's clear from the news, that for most spankings are best left for after hours play.

Have you heard about the woman that turned a workplace spanking into 1.7 Million? Click for Article.

Spanking Primer

2006-09-11T01:55:00.000-04:00

I just returned home after an evening of wicked fun in my Manhattan play space. Some of my favorite sessions are role play discipline sessions where I am either the Governess/Head School Mistress or the Mommy. Good spankings are an art form involving so much more than the meeting of spanking implement to flesh.

The following article has been circulating around the Internet for years. The original author is unknown. It is a good primer and worth the read.

How To Spank

Spanking is a much more personal and intimate than other forms of discipline. There is nothing quite like the feel of your boy bent over your knee, bare ass arched upwards, quivering with a combination of fear and anticipation. For the bottom, too, it provides a very unique feeling - both physically and mentally.

Spanking evokes memories of corporal punishment many of us experience in childhood. For this reason, many spankees look for tops who fit the roles of Daddy, Mommy, coach, a big brother, Aunt or other authority figures.

Position & Posture

One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of discipline is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, many prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning. Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee.

The spanker enjoys the following advantages from their position:

Comfort

Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing their arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease because of their position.

Strength
Because they are able to wind up and freely swing their arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended target with force. While standing, the spanker cannot only swing their arm but rotate their body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere.

Full Access
The spankee's position is designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative position is designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the spanker is able to view, tweak, pat and spank it.

Safety
Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will fall too high or too low.

Control
The spanker's position gives them the "upper hand" and allows them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand higher than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and situate the spankee.

The spankee realizes the following effects from their position:

Relative Comfort
Except for the notable exception of their backside, many think it's important that the spankee be relatively comfortable so they can focus on the sensations being inflicted upon their posterior.

Anticipation
Bending over and getting into position to get your bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation.

Increased Sensation
A properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive "sit spot."

Humiliation
Being put over the knee is a childish, humiliating posture. Having to "assume the position" is humiliating in its submission and rubs in the fact that they are being spanked.

Exposure
A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed. The cheeks are fully presented and split, their undersides turned up. In the case of men, the anus and back of scrotum show. Women are even more exposed, their rectums and vulvas fully visible.

Emphasis on Their Bottom
Spanking positions place the center of attention on the bottom of the person being spanked, a fact not lost on said person. The bottom is emphasized by its exposure and upturned position relative to the spanker.

Presentation of Their Bottom
Not only is the bottom exposed and emphasized but the spankee feels they are willingly "sticking it out" and presenting it for its punishment in the same way that the condemned man must place his head on the chopping block. The spankee knows their bottom cannot evade or escape the swats.

Submission
Cooperatively getting into position to be spanked is the primary act of submission in spanking.

Safety
Although it may be of little solace, the spankee can take comfort in the fact that their position affords safety from injury. Of course, this can be disconcerting if they know they will be spanked with even more abandon.

Loss of Control
Once positioned, the spankee has relinquished control and may not easily regain it until the spanking is done. They may have difficulty removing their rear from the line of fire if they try.

Inability to Clench
When standing, one can clench their cheeks together, mitigating the sting of a swat and the exposure. When properly positioned, it is more difficult to clench cheeks and the spanking will be applied to a relaxed, bouncing bottom.

Excellent Visual Presentation
Speaking from the point of view of an admitted bottom fancier, there are few times that someone looks more adorable and beautiful than when he or she is positioned to be spanked. Not only is the bottom emphasized, but it is formed to a flattering shape and sexily perked out. Spanking positions would be sexy even to people not into spanking.

Specific Positions

Following are descriptions of various positions that many find erotic, their distinguishing characteristics, tactics that can be used to enhance them, and precautions to take. All descriptions assume a right-handed spanker.

Over the Lap
The spanker sits with good posture in an armless chair, knees together. The person being spanked must lay face down across the spanker's lap, with their head to the left and their feet to the right. They must be over the lap far enough so their bottom is conveniently located directly over the spanker's right thigh. In order to preserve modesty, the person being spanked may be tempted to lie flat with their head up and legs straight out behind; however, if they are concerned for their modesty, they shouldn't have gotten themselves spanked in the first place.

The spankee's head and shoulders should be angled down and their knees tucked down out of the way so that their bottom is well turned up. A palm pressed against the back of the head and swats to the thighs are helpful in positioning the spankee. Knees should be at least six inches apart and the lower back should be "arched" or dipped to further turn up their rear. For a woman, this will result in her vulva being fully exposed and presented. Depending on size, toes will either be resting against the floor or hoisted off a few inches. The full weight of the spankee should be resting on the lap. Hands can either be on the floor or grasping the legs of the chair. If the right hand flies back during spanking, it should be pinned to the lower back by the spanker's left hand.

Prior to starting to spank, the spanker should firmly grasp the spankee's waist above the right hip with the left hand to prevent squirming off the lap. Then the left elbow should be planted between the shoulder blades to keep the head and shoulders from bobbing up. The spanker should raise their right knee slightly, turning up the bottom further. In the case of a woman or man spanking a boy, she should make sure his penis is pressed firmly against her right thigh and aimed to the left.

By turning their upper body to the right, the spanker can get a fuller swing and more comfortably apply a stronger swat. By combining all of these tactics - the raised knee, the elbow in the back, the hand in the small of the back - the spanker can effectively pin the spankee down and spank the daylights out of them.

Over the Knee
Similar to over-the-lap except the spankee is bent over the left knee with their legs restrained by the spanker's right leg.

Hands on Ankles
This is the classic school-style paddling position. The student must stand well clear of obstacles with feet shoulder width apart. Leaving knees straight and back straight, the student must bend over and grasp their ankles with both hands. The spanker may want to observe the student's hands throughout the paddling to ensure they do not leave the ankles and earn extra swats.

The spanker stands facing the left side of the student. They should stand far enough away so the paddle barely overlaps past the right cheek. They should adjust fore and aft to ensure that both cheeks are struck at the same time (assuming a paddle is being used. Canes and straps warrant slightly forward positioning). It is not possible to more fully expose and present a rear end than when in this position. When one is told to bend over and grab their ankles, one is, in effect, being told, "we intend to thoroughly paddle your bottom. So not only will you present your rear-end but you will stretch and endeavor to stick it up and out as far as you absolutely positively can. And throughout the paddling, you will continue to strain to stick it out for the paddle."

Since the angle between the legs and the upper body is well under 90 degrees, this position spreads the cheeks and exposes the rectum and genitals more than any other position. This is a great fantasy position, but I think it only works safely in reality for spankees with flexible bodies (especially when a thick paddle is used). Inflexible people can't reach their ankles without bending their knees. Men run the risk of getting their testicles whacked. Non-fleshy butts get pulled tightly across the pelvic bones and don't provide enough padding when a heavy paddle is used.

Hands on Knees
This is a safer, more workable position than hands-on-ankles. The bottom is presented in a plumper, more paddle-friendly shape but visually, the position is still very school-like. Depending on the person, I think this position can be more visually appealing because the back can be arched a bit which perks up the bottom. In fact, the further up the legs the hands are placed, the more the spankee can arch their back and stick out their rump. Again, feet
should be shoulder width apart and hand positioning enforced. Because the back can be arched and bottom upturned, it should be required, both prior and during the paddling. A technique which tends to arch the back correctly is to require the student to look forward at a spot high on the wall. That way, they are required to pull their head up and arch their back.

Over the Desk on Tiptoes
Another school-like position. The student must bend over a desk with nose or chest pressed to the desk. Hands and arms should be placed on the desk over their head to further arch the back. To further elevate their bottoms to be spanked, they must raise up onto their toes. Penalty swats can be awarded for every incidence of a heel touching the floor (hint: watch after the "last" swat before the student is told they may relax).

Over a Barstool or Horse
This is probably the best position for paddling because the bottom is presented in a plump and relaxed manner. The person to be punished must lay their full weight across the stool, their feet hanging and hands grasping the legs of the stool at a level such that there is a little support for their upper body. This is a relaxed, comfortable position which works well for lengthy spankings.

Laying on Bed
Another comfortable position for lengthy spankings and ensuing diversions. The spankee must lay face-down on a bed. Their face should be pressed to the mattress while their hips and bottom are elevated on pillows. Since pillows are compressible, it may take three or four to achieve the proper elevation.

Kneeling in Chair
This is a favorite positions for spankees with great butts because, properly executed, it presents the rear in its most flattering light. The trick is in the execution. The spankee must kneel in the seat of a padded chair (save those knees for later) facing the back with the thighs vertical and upper body forward over the back. Again, the spankee should be required to arch the back well.

Two things conspire to shape his or her bottom.

First, the back of the chair prevents him or her from bending so far as to preclude a good back arch.

Second, just as high heels shape calves fully by angling the foot to shorten and bulge the calf muscle, kneeling with the calves at right angles to the thighs seems to allow the buttocks to bulge fully.

Adjustment & Readjustment
Most people think it's important to deliberately position and adjust the spankee prior to the first swat. Emphasis should be placed on positioning and presenting the bottom fully. Throughout the spanking, the spankee should be readjusted as their position begins to fail.

Verbal Instruction
Many folks think it's best to require the spankee to willfully maintain their own position without the physical assistance of the spanker, especially in the case of stand-up paddlings. Therefore, verbal communication is necessary throughout the spanking to encourage the spankee to continue to assume the correct position.

Pickiness
One of the disciplinary aspects of spanking is that no matter how perfect the spankee is positioned, they can always improve, stick their bottom out a little further, etc. The spanker should not feel guilty that their exacting demands regarding position are perhaps a little too picky and unrealistic.

Spanking in the News

2006-09-10T21:29:00.000-04:00

Little Known Fact about Carly Simon

I know not all of you are old enough to remember Carly Simon or her hit "Haven't Got Time for the Pain" but I know all of us can appreciate when spankings make it into main stream news. Okay, The NY Daily News isn't exactly the NY Times, but it is a main stream newspaper none the less. The notation was small and if you blinked you could have missed it, but as a gal who really enjoys her work and giving spankings, this caught my eye!!

From the link www.nydailynews.com/front/story/447252p-376574c.html

Carly Simon's greatest, er, hits

Looks like Carly Simon was fibbing with her hit "Haven't Got Time for the Pain."

The pop legend admits she gets spanked backstage before performances because only physical pain can overcome her stage fright.

"At a celebration for President Bill Clinton's 50th birthday, at Radio City Music Hall, in 1996, Simon, terrified of following Smokey Robinson, invited the entire horn section to let her have it," writes John Lahr in the New Yorker. " 'They all took turns spanking me,' she says 'During the spank the curtain went up.' "

It's not exactly "Happy Birthday, Mr. President," but I'll bet Clinton liked it.

I'm willing to bet Mr Clinton enjoyed it!!

Sitting Around

2006-09-09T22:36:00.000-04:00

I was just sitting here thinking about the facesitting video that will be posted to the web very soon. I really enjoy sitting on faces and playing breath control games. The only thing that can compare to sitting on your face is squeezing your face between my thighs.
Yes, a nice tight scissor hold that turns the face a perfect shade of red is very satisfying indeed. I'm looking forward to my next face sitting session - will that be yours? Call to book now!

These little piggies

2006-09-07T20:40:00.000-04:00

Just an average Thursday -- which means it's pedicure day. I love having my feet pampered and primped. It's a ritualistic practice that, for me, sums up what it means to be a woman - a woman who is used to people bowing down at her feet. There is a sense of power that fills me as my feet are lovingly attended to; as they are prepared with great attention to detail.

I wear a french manicure which I insist remain pristine. That way as I trample you, tease you, or let you worship my feet, the image is one of pure perfection.

New clip now on-line!

2006-09-06T19:31:00.000-04:00

The second part of my trampling video has been posted to the BBW Trampling website. The first clip started out with me in a pair of sexy lace up high heels, and in this section I'm in my stocking feet. My full weight is on his chest as he kisses my feet.

If you're into feet or trampling, be sure to check out this video series. To experience this yourself, visit my new website for information on how to book a session.

Introducing Mistress Wylona

2006-09-05T03:58:00.000-04:00

A Rubinesque ProDomme with a stunning hour-glass full figure, I am Mistress Wylona. Some of you may have seen me, or at least parts of me, in fetish films or perhaps in other Adult roles.

My short stature accentuates my curvy frame which begins with 36F all natural breasts, a narrowed waist, which serves it's purpose -- leading your eyes to my favorite feature – my full ass and generous, powerful thighs -- perfect for you to worship or to be smothered in. But don't stop there, my feet are equally delicious!!

I’m a lifestyle player that understands the delicate subtleties of role play -- the balance of discipline to nurture. I can be the strict governess you need or the nurturing mommy you want, either way I'm the MILF you dream about. So whether you are over My knee, on your knees, or in some other equally submissive position, you'll be delighted to be in my presence. Call to book your session NOW!

Mistress Wylona